and explain what I had found out and also the impact of everything he had put me through in our marriage. I was at the end of my tether and so there was no hope in going forward if things didn’t change between us. Either my husband had to change his ways and seek help, or I would be leaving for good.

It took some time for him to ponder this news and I had to show him I meant business by packing up my bags and calling my mother in front of him to say I was going to stay with them… it must have worked because the penny sank in…quickly! He agreed to go to marriage therapy and counselling as well as anger management courses to deal with his issues. I must admit I was hesitant to think he’d agree to such a thing, but he did and for the sake of burying ghosts from his past he did.